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I was just ghosted by this guy who seems to have a girlfriend :( I want to date a local, you know? I speak the language, I live here, I like a lot of things about Japan, so I guess I wanted to experience having a special other from here. Now, I'll be the first to admit I'm being really stupid, but.
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It feels nice to be seen as a potential partner, and just dating "normally", you know? Going for lunch, coffee, for a walk, etc. I've realized this is not the case at all when I meet other foreigners. You start to believe there's something wrong with you, that you're undateable :(
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I know the process already - I start "dating" someone, this person eventually realizes I actually mean what's on my profile (looking for friends and dates - not "fun"!), then they immediately lose interest. I use Tinder and multiple gay apps, but while I get a lot of "attention" for being an exotic foreigner I guess, it's pretty much always from guys who are looking for casual encounters. I've been in Tokyo for 3 years and I honestly struggle to find guys who want to date. Dating is tough for everyone, but it gets extra hard when your dating pool is minuscule, and in a culture where gay guys just have girlfriends/wives and just have sex with men in secret.
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